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Locals are self-centred and stingy and rarely spend on their girlfriends."But some local women say foreign men are overbearing, controlling and authoritarian.Akhona Zitha, who rues the day she met her Nigerian ex-boyfriend, says she will never date a foreigner."Many are bullies who believe it is 'a man's world'.Very few South African men have genuine respect for women."She adds that her husband not only takes care of her child, but of her whole family too.Zintle Zulu, 28, who is married to a Zimbabwean doctor, says dating a foreigner gave her security."Foreign men are very aware of a woman's needs. Most locals don't know how to romance a woman."She adds that foreign men are very generous."Not all of them have money, but those who do spend it on their women.Most women Sowetan spoke to say they date foreign men because locals don't have what they have.
Tabita Mbuyazwe, 28, who has been dating a Nigerian for three years, says her boyfriend has restored her dignity."Before I met Chinedu I dated South Africans, but they treated me like trash. They didn't want to commit and they all had stable relationships."Some had children from different mothers.Though most foreign men are branded drug dealers and con artists, some local women are falling over themselves to get at these blokes. According to Mpho Ngwekazi, a relationship and marriage counsellor in Johannesburg, most foreign men are brought up to be responsible."Most of them grew up under the watchful eye of their fathers, unlike most South African men whose fathers were absent due to migrant work, exile or adultery," Ngwekazi says.She says foreign boys are taught to take charge and take risks, get into fights, know their territory and to protect it and everyone in it."The average African boy is taught to be responsible, be a leader and be the head of the household.The Authority does not finance professional sports stadiums.Click HERE for additional important background information regarding private activity bonds or PABs.But do you really want a guy you just met to see all those old photos you’ve been tagged in?